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FOUR STAGES OF






                          FAILURE IN LIFE





                                                     &




                How to Fix Them










                                                       By Nozer Buchia









                                                                     ould you rather be someone that can solve
                                                                     problems through education by learning, or
                                                                     someone that knows how to face problems
                                                                     through training of thinking? We all fall
                                                                     into this dilemma sometime during our
                                                                     journey, for the question does not have
                                                       Wone simple answer. And it is this struggle
                                                       within oneself that gives rise to that one word that most
                                                       people fear in life – Failure!
                                                          My audiences have heard me say repeatedly, “Never fear
                                                       failure instead fear success.” Make sure it is really what
                                                       you want, for when one succeeds, he/she will be living his/
                                                       her dream 24 hours a day and for the rest of your life. Then
                                                       why do we have this inherent fear of failing? Is it com-
                                                       peting with others that sets this fear in our minds or is it
                                                       competing with ourselves that causes this anguish?”
                                                          Failure is nothing but success turned upside down. It is
                                                       the disruptive state or condition of the mind not meeting a
                                                       desired or intended objective. Finding criteria to evaluate
                                                       the success or failure of a situation is by itself a significant
                                                       task. It is important to first recognize the four stages of
                                                       failure in life and then cognize how to fix them.







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